This time last year I was talking about dealing with Christmas stress, and I seem to have come full circle!
It’s a fun time of year, but there’s also a lot to do, and different people will struggle with different things. I love organising things, but I know other people get stressed out by it. Not being organised stresses me out more! Sometimes you have a lot of people in one place for a number of days – people that you wouldn’t normally see, never mind stay with for a few days. Some people are worried about cooking for extra people, whereas others don’t mind the cooking, but hate the supermarket a week before Christmas. Some people are just tired after driving around to what feels like endless events/parties/school plays/meetings with friends/activities. Some people just don’t feel well – they’ve been busy and then get run down and catch a cold the day before Christmas Eve.
It’s too easy to divide people up into those who love the Christmas period with all its festive activities, and those who don’t!
You can still enjoy it, but feel a bit jaded by the time it gets to a week before Christmas.
One of the biggest lessons I’ve learned over the last couple of years is that it’s important to ask for help if you need it.
I don’t mean the practical stuff – that’s important too, but I’m better at asking for a specific favour to fix a practical problem.
With other things though – if I’ve been feeling frazzled or stressed out, sad or overwhelmed – my usual plan is to just plough on through and not tell anyone. If I am not feeling ok, I usually just withdraw anyway and nobody even notices there’s a problem. I don’t intentionally hide it, it just doesn’t always occur to me to share.
That might be the only way if there really is noone around to help, but usually there is someone, even if we don’t see it straight away. In any event, when there is a partner or friends and family members who would love to help if they knew how, it’s good to let them.
Sometimes they can help by taking on a task that is causing you stress, or at least sharing it. Maybe the thing can be avoided all together or done in a different way.
Maybe it’ll just help people to know why you need a long bath and some alone time.
Maybe they didn’t realise there was a problem because different things stress out different people.
Maybe you just need a hug!
Whatever it is, it can sometimes feel like there’s a lot of pressure, particularly on social media, to be seen to be having fun and the “best Christmas time ever”. But sometimes, for whatever reasons, it doesn’t feel like that. And that’s ok.
So if you can’t wait for Christmas and you’re excited and happy, that’s great! But if you’re not, you don’t have to struggle on your own – whether that’s because of life events that make you not feel like celebrating, or just all the little things that mount up and make you want a bit of time out.
Advent calendar unboxing
Throughout Blogmas I’ll be unboxing my two advent calendars from Glossybox and the Body Shop and giving a brief product review.
Body Shop – It’s product 9 for the giveaway – a full-size Himalayan charcoal face mask from the Body Shop. The mask absorbs excess oil and purifies skin to leave a healthy glow.
Glossybox – this was cool! A fat eye stick from Eyeko. They’re available in 3 shades, and they’re a twist-up crayon eye shadow. I have a number of these, but none from this brand, so I was happy to try out a new one!
Unseen Beauty Blogmas Giveaway
Today you have another chance to enter my Unseen Beauty Blogmas giveaway. There will be a box with 10 prizes from the Glossybox and Body Shop advent calendars, and the prizes will be revealed throughout December. You can enter once on each Blogmas 2018 page, which means you have up to 24 chances of winning. You can enter at any time from when the page goes live to the end of December 2018.
Multiple entries on the same page will not be counted – I have a spreadsheet to log them!
Your answers to the questions will help me to get to know my readers and where they are based. Also, they prove that you’re a real person as I don’t use inaccessible widgets on my site.
The giveaway is international, but if postal restrictions prevent me from sending a product to your country, I will replace it with an alternative.
The form only goes to me.
What’s in the box?
- Huda Beauty Winter solstice palate Featuring one pearlescent creamy formula and three icy pressed pearl powders.
- Spa of the World® French grapeseed body scrub from the Body Shop.
- Black eye liner pencil from the Body Shop
- An eye make-up brush from the Body Shop something will be coming later to go with that!
- Real Techniques expert face brush
- MUA Cosmic Vixen palette with 15 eye shadows.
- Karmameju konjac sponge
- Luxie Beauty highlighter brush
- Himalayan charcoal face mask from the Body Shop.
Product 10 coming tomorrow!
Giveaway entry form
Terms and conditions
- The give-away is open until 23:59 on 31st December 2018, and I’ll draw the winner on 2nd January 2019.
- I will give each entry a number and then draw the winner by asking Siri to generate a random number. I want to make it as easy and accessible as possible for people to enter.
- Your email address is being collected solely for the purpose of contacting you if you win the prize. You are welcome to sign up to my newsletter at the same time, but this isn’t necessary to take part in the give-away. If you do not win the prize, your email address will only be stored if you have signed up to the newsletter or asked for your entry to be carried over to the next give-away.
- I will email the winner on 2nd January to ask for their address so that I can send the prize. The winner will have 7 days in which to respond. If they haven’t responded after 7 days, I will draw a new winner.
- No cash alternatives are available and the winner is responsible for checking product ingredients for any known allergens)
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